The Wife and I were planning on separate valentines days. She was doing something else and I was invited by my boss to go to London with colleagues for a party. Before we could go, I was buying chocolate and a drink for myself in a little shop. They were short of products because of the holiday and they gave me lots of change. I moved on and in a queue for a coffee was an old girlfriend of mine from when I was a teenager. She was holding some flowers that were dying and she was returning them, and she was accusing me of sending them to her. I looked at the note which just had scribbles on it and apparently I did send them but I denied it anyway. My gossipy colleague overheads and went to tell my wife, I gave chase and told my wife in no uncertain terms that it wasnt true (even though it was) and that it didnt mean anything. We were then back at my old family home and I stormed upstairs to get ready to go even as my Wife was collecting her things to leave. It was like she believed me but was also uoset and wanted to get away. I watched from an upstairs window as she got into a car with my Dad and drove back and forth in front of the house, splashing through puddles which got progressively deeper.
This dream could symbolize some underlying tensions and insecurities within your relationship with your wife. The separate Valentine's Day plans may suggest a desire for independence or a need for individuality within the relationship. The invitation to go to London with colleagues could represent the allure of exciting opportunities outside of the relationship. The scene in the little shop with the shortage of products may reflect feelings of scarcity or a lack of fulfillment in some aspect of your life. The excessive change you receive could symbolize a potential windfall or unexpected benefits coming your way. Encountering your old girlfriend from your teenage years may symbolize unresolved emotions or unfinished business from the past. Her accusation of sending dying flowers may represent feelings of guilt or responsibility for past actions. Denying sending the flowers, even though you know it to be true, could suggest a tendency to avoid confronting uncomfortable truths or difficulty taking responsibility for past mistakes. The involvement of your gossipy colleague and the chase to stop them from telling your wife implies a fear of the truth coming out and potentially damaging your relationship. The scene shifting to your old family home may symbolize unresolved issues or past traumas within your family that are affecting your current relationship dynamics. Lastly, the image of your wife leaving with your father and driving back and forth, splashing through progressively deeper puddles, may represent her desire to distance herself from the situation and the growing emotional intensity. It suggests that her trust may be wavering, and she may be considering or seeking emotional support from other sources. Overall, this dream may be highlighting the need for open communication, honesty, and addressing any unresolved issues or tensions within your relationship in order to maintain trust and emotional connection.